Love is a wonderful thing. A wonderful and stupid thing😊. Amongst the many things love makes us do, It’s crazy how it gives you hope that another full fledged, independent adult will change, usually because of you😅, not necessarily because of their choice to change and concentrated efforts towards change.
Do not tolerate abuse…You are scared that churches may stop inviting you for ministrations when you leave your marriage. When you die, or get hospitalized, or loses your mind (yes, insanity), or the part of your body which you use for services gets deformed, you will still not be invited for those ministrations. Wetin u gain?
If you’re facing abuse, ask/Cry for help.
You will get help.
Say NO to Spousal Abuse and all kinds of abuse (Physical – Emotional – Sexual – Financial abuse, neglect, abandonment). Learn to deal with your bullies.
Husband/Wife Material, Do not stay back in that relationship when your life is at risk… You want to boast about how you were married for 25 years, 50 years….But…You need to be alive to prove your point…Dead men tell no tales.